Sunday, 05 July 2009

  • Miss Independent

    Featured Grownups has a new topic.. and even though I haven't reintroduced myself there or been the very best Xangan I'm going to write anyway. Partly because I'm awake and the kids are not :)

    Your mission: What tyranny have you faced down in your personal life? From what bondage have you claimed or gained your independence? What is your independence day?

    As I sat here thinking of all the different ways I've gained my independence throughout my life, it dawned on me that none were more important than the realization I actually had it.

    As a mother I make sacrifices, I risk scrutiny on an hourly basis, do things I would never do for any other human and unfortunately have lost bits of myself that I gained through countless independent personal triumphs. Prior to thinking about this though, I thought all that had essentially removed my independence. Not being able to shift outside the box of parenthood for so long had deflated me.

    I have always been a very independent person. Pregnant young, out on my own, was a single parent for years and I always made things work.. always landed on my feet because I knew I could. I built a business, taught myself new things, expanded my creativity beyond my own expectations and nurtured some of the most beautiful people I've even known. Yet somehow I forgot that. Somehow I let myself believe that I was in chains.

    What I see now is that I was wrong. I have the freedom to make choices for my children that my parents did not make for me. The freedom to learn and search and question and grow every day so that I will never go backwards. I don't have to follow the sheep, and I never did. My independence was always right here with me; in my actions, on the faces of my children and I won't soon forget that. My independence day is today.

    I hope everyone had a wonderful 4th and my heart goes out to every man, woman and child serving our country to protect the freedom we celebrate.

Thursday, 02 July 2009

  • Broken Crayons?

    Weather you have a house full of kiddos like me or just one, you've got crayons. I don't know about your kids, but prior to my making them all their own little crayon rolls, we had a crayon mess all the time. The box we kept them in got dumped out often and crayons got broken on a regular basis. Of course this doesn't happen anymore, but I still have a box half full of broken crayons collecting dust and I despise waste!

    So I went in search of ideas for those crayon bits and after finding tutorials like this in about 100 different blogs I decided I'd try it.. my own way of course. I feel I must mention this tutorial though, because it was different. I would have done something like it but ended up not having enough crayon bits to make it work.

    Everything I read said preheat oven to 350 and break out the muffin tin. But since I always put my oven on hiatus over the summer and use it as a storage shed for baking pans, I used the toaster oven instead and I didn't preheat it. I also used my mini muffin pan instead of the regular one.. sadly I don't use the mini much so I didn't mind getting crayon bits in it.

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    So I peeled, broke up and evenly distributed my crayon bits into my mini muffin pan. Only had enough bits to fill 6 little cups but that's ok. Slid it into the toaster oven, put in on 350 and about 5 minutes later I had little bowls of crayon soup that smelled .. well they smelled like something alright. Stuck the pan into the fridge and about 15 minutes later we had 6 little crayon cakes that resembled smallish peanut butter cups.

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    I must say, they are a big hit! This was an amusing thing to do on a rainy morning that ended up keeping them quiet and occupied for over an hour! (which is an amazing thing in momland!)

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    ETA 7/3/09: My almost 11 month old oddly didn't try to eat these! He actually sat at the table with us and was rubbing them on the paper!!

Monday, 29 June 2009

  • Prefitted Updates!

    I'm sure most that read here are sick of hearing about my 'prefolds to fitteds' journey. But that's not going to stop me from documenting it. I'm positive there is at least one person out there that will benefit from my research/mistakes!

    Ok, so I think I have finalized what I believe is the perfect prefitted. I made some changes to the design in my tutorial and I will be updating the tutorial to reflect them soon. For now I thought I'd just show those changes off, because I'm mighty satisfied with the results!

    First, I changed the way I do the tabs and decided to cover them with decorative fabric too. Why didn't I do this to begin with? Well, I like using pins with my fitteds because Luke is able to undo both snaps and velcro. While I do use velcro on my nighttime/outing pockets he's in coverless fitteds all day while he's the most active and curious. And my initial thinking was that the extra layer of fabric, be it flannel or cotton weave, would make it thicker than I'd like for pinning. But I tried it and decided I was wrong. Again I like flannel the best because of it's absorbency and little bit of stretch, but how can anyone resist Alexander Henry's Apples+Pears (I know it's a little girly for Luke but I just love this print). Basically all I did here was cut some strips of fabric to match the length of the tabs, sewed right sides together, turned and topstitched. Why didn't I cut it all in one piece? Well, designer fabric is expensive and diaper cuts tend to waste fabric.

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    The tabs are not perfect but you get the idea, from here the diaper is finished almost exactly the same as in the tutorial. Here is the finished dipe (don't ya just love this print?):

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    Action Shot:

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    And just because I love this little embellishment on one of my first prefitteds...

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Thursday, 25 June 2009

  • Well Child

    My youngest son will be turning a year old on August 6th, so naturally my insurance company sent him a birthday card yesterday. Since we are so close an all... Of course the card said he was due for a Well Child visit with his pediatrician and that he was in desperate need of some vaccinations. So, like all junk mail, I handed it over to the kids so they could play with it.

    Later, while cleaning up, I gathered up all the junk mail and took it to the paper recycling box. As I tossed it all in though, something fell out. It was the Well Child Chart that listed all the appointments a child should have with all the vaccinations and whatnot listed under each age. I almost tossed it in, but I was struck by how long it was so I decided to take a closer look.

    Even though I already know how insane the vaccine schedule is, it was still shocking to see it. According to this chart, Lucas has already missed over 20 shots! And he's only 10 months old! He's never even been to the doctor, aside from the doc that checked him over at the hospital when he was born. He's never had a reason to go since we don't vaccinate and like the other kids, he's never sick. Matter of fact, the last time we even saw their pediatrician was over 2 years ago when I made the decision to completely stop vaccinating. Now if anyone gets sick we go to a homeopathic center where our entire family can see a neuropath, homeopath and even a chiropractor.

    More upsetting than seeing that vaccine schedule laid out was the addition of some new things on the Well Child chart. Not only do they now want children to get a flu shot 5 times by the time they turn one but they also have to have a verbal risk assessment at each visit starting at 9 months! What on earth would a 9 month old need a verbal risk assessment for? This is scary. I see how the "autism spectrum" is pushed in school to benefit funding and test scores, but now they want to push it on babies too? Why, so they can just weed them out of school altogether? I will never understand how they expect children to all fit in the same mold, and it was bad enough poor parents and children all over America are being told their children are less than perfect because they don't fall in line with those stupid developmental charts. This is ridiculous, children this young should not have to jump through hoops to perform! Verbal risk assessment my ass! All of my children did EVERYTHING at different times! And I mean everything, from crawling and walking to eating and talking. Each of them different in so many ways, but all of them perfectly normal developmentally.

    I am so thankful that I question things and do extensive research when I don't understand or agree with something. I'm so happy that instead of looking through some doctor's developmental glasses I trust my maternal instincts and use intelligence and common sense instead to nurture my children as I see fit. Letting them grow and learn as they were intended to.

    It is a scary world indeed that our government, the pharmaceutical companies and the medical field are trying to create for us. Living off the grid is now more savory than ever and I hope it is something we can accomplish before our children grow up.

Tuesday, 23 June 2009

  • Commercials?

    Is it just me or have advertising campaigns gone off the map lately?

    If I see one more commercial for a paper towel telling me how much like a real towel it is I'm going to scream! If your paper towel does the job that my real towel does, that I already use and rewash, then what on earth do I need your product for? Not that I would ever buy paper towels, but in this economy and in light of all the hoopla people are throwing over green living these day, you'd think they could come up with something better than "hey, our disposable paper towels do the same job as that dishrag you keep reusing over there".

    OMG and paper plates? I think I actually had to pick my jaw up off the floor the first time I saw that one with the mom saying she use paper plates and such because she was a better mom than those that wash dishes! GRR! Way to go ad people, insult your target audience! Huzzah!

    Oh and then there is that one for Prego. Any time I have seen it I am left scratching my head. It's like, "some people prefer sauce from a jar" and they drop a jar of sauce on some pasta like it's a disease ridden rat.. then "but others prefer this sauce" and you see a nice picture of some pasta with sauce on it.. then a jar of prego next to it. Does anyone else understand this or am I completely missing something?

    OH and the Jacoby & Meyer's one! What the heck is that about? The screen flashes their add and goes all fuzzy and wonky. Then it looks like someone keeps trying to change the channel and they keep getting that stupid ad. Is this a threat? Are they trying to say they are going to take over television? or the world? Does it contain a subliminal message? "Get a lawyer. Sue somebody. Give us your money."

    And don't even get me started on the car commercials that boast their fabulous deals then at the end tell you those deals are only for 'well qualified buyers'. And hey, its only $4or500 a month too. Fabu deal right? I don't know about you all, but I don't even spend that much a month on food for 6 people! Are they freaking kidding me!?!

    I just don't get it.

Sunday, 21 June 2009

  • Prefitted Tutorial (Serging Optional!)

    After playing around with several of the prefold into fitted or 'prefitted' tutorials I found on the web, I decided I didn't care for any of them and developed my own! This can be done with or without a serger if you like and is much less bulky in the legs than some of the other non-sergered prefitted ideas! You will need a fun print for this, I have used both cotton weave and flannel, but find the flannel works much better and provides an extra layer of absorbency. And you only need a little more than you would use if you were just embellishing your prefold. Have fun! (scroll to the bottom if you'd like to see a finished dipe)

    Start off by ironing your prefold. It's much easier to work when it's non-quilty.. or at least less quilty.

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    Next you want to fold your prefold in half longwise and trim it down a bit depending on what size prefold you are using. I have premium 4x8x4 (blue serging) ones and having used them already through 2 children I always end up folding them down about 2 inches, all the way to potty training! You may not need or want to do this if your prefolds don't need any folding. (nevermind my old ripped ironing board cover.. it was my grams, can't seem to part with it now that she's gone)

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    After you get the length you want, it's time to cut in the tabs. You can make a template or use a pattern you love, either way you want to make sure you leave at least 3/4 of an inch next to the center seams to encase the elastic and turn.

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    Take the piece you removed, which will become the soaker pad, and line the straight edge up with the opposite end of the prefold. Use the tab you made as a template to make the soaker and extended tabs.

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    Next you want to shape your extended tabs as you like, either squared or rounded. And here is where you can avoid serging on the tabs. Divide the layers of your extended tabs up and stitch as close as you can to the edge on both, leaving the end you will attach. Turn right side out, iron and set aside. OR just leave them the way they are, as I did and you can serge or zigzag the entire tab later.

    Now take the remaining pieces which will become your soaker.

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    TIP: Before you start sewing change your needle to a heavy duty one, 90/14 or 100/16. These are thick in some areas to sew through and I broke a few needles before I actually walked over to my supply draw to get a heavy needle.

    Stitch them up long sides together giving about an inch seam allowance. Open the seam, press and trim the edges. Lay the soaker down on your cotton print/flannel and cut. Line up your soaker and your print, right sides together and sew leaving an opening to turn. Turn right side out, press and topstitch the opening closed. You can topstitch the entire soaker pad if you like. You will most likely end up with a neater looking pad.. unless you are sewing with children running circles around you and sitting on your lap - like me :)

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    Ok, now let's go back to the tabs. If you left the extended tabs unfinished, just butt the edges together and zigzag. Then surge or zigzag around the raw edges. If you turned them; split the bottom edge of the tabs on the prefold evenly, tuck the raw edges under and press. Then butt the edges together, zigzag and then topstitch the entire tab.

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    Mark where you want your elastic, this will be different depending on how chunky of a thigh you are dealing with :). Use your favorite pattern or diaper for a guide.

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    Then split the layers of material evenly between your markings, just like you did if you turned your tabs, and "blind stitch" your elastic in - stretching tightly as you go. OR you can tack it down at the markings because once you add your decorative fabric it will create a casing. Before you put your elastic in you will want to cut a strip of your decorative fabric. Cut it the length of the prefold with an inch added and the width of the front with an inch added.

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    This is what it should look like when you are done if you zigzagged your elastic:

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    Next sew your soaker in. There are a few different ways you can do it. I opted for petal style, which seems to be best for faster drying times. But you can also stitch down the middle. Placement of the pad is totally up to you, I placed mine towards the front because rear end of my kids diapers are always dry (boy or girl), but you may want it more in the middle.

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    Take your decorative fabric and line the right side up with the inside of the diaper, fold your soaker out of the way so you don't sew over it and pin the fabric down to where you started your elastic or where the wing for the tab begins.

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    Make sure you pin and stretch it out evenly so you get the same amount of fabric overlap on each side. If you did not zigzag your elastic down then you will need to make sure it is tucked in good as not to sew over it. Then sew it up the sides and across the front, remembering not to go further than the wing. Go back over the edge of the seam you just made with a zigzag stitch to prevent fraying and create a stronger seam. Then turn it right side out and press.

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    If you want, you can add elastic to the back now. I normally don't because it never makes much of a difference for me. But I added it this time, just zigzag a piece down pulling tightly across the thick part of the prefold.

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    Take the flap of decorative fabric and fold it in about half an inch or however much overlap you have to meet the seam, press then topstitch.

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    And that's it! Your done!

    Clear as mud? :) (one of my dance teachers used to say that all the time with new choreography)

    TIP: When washing, make sure you use a normal or gentle spin setting. I accidentally left my machine on a heavy duty spin setting and frayed the 2 prefitteds I had in that load. They aren't ruined and I can fix them, but it could have been avoided.

    Outside:

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    Inside:

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    All pinned up! (excuse the loose threads, my cat took it for a drag around the house while I was tending to something else.. haha)

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    And of course, the action shot of the elusive Lucas bolting through our bedroom curtain! (yes we have a door but these kids always open it!).. excuse the unvacuumed floor.. can't vacuum and sew all in one day.. haha

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    Here's a couple shots of one with a cotton print. I made this one without back elastic and the leg elastic was not zigzagged down. Also I used plain white flannel to cover the soaker pad instead of the Thomas print because it is softer and more absorbent.

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Friday, 19 June 2009

  • Sewing a Prefold into a Fitted

    This is my first attempt at turning one of my precious Unbleached DSQ Cotton Prefolds (that I treasure) into a fitted.

    I loosely used this tutorial, though I debated using this one. I'm not sure I like the one I made just yet and I am going to try the other tut as soon as I have a chance and maybe add a decorative cotton print to the outside as well. Cause let's face it, fluffy butts gotta be cute!

    This project was surprisingly easy, when I initially looked over the tut I used I was thinking that it would be much harder. Must be the way she worded it because, it ended up only taking me about 7 minutes to complete. For the template, I used the fitted pattern I drafted in January when I tweaked and revamped the RRP, since the fit of my fitteds is awesome on Luke. Though I am not pleased with the way the leg elastic came out - partly because I did not follow the tutorial exactly and partly because these prefolds are VERY thick. I did not add rear elastic, really because I forgot, but I have found that it's really not needed during the day. The fit is nice and trim, it is clearly going to be more absorbent all around and Luke seems to like it (but then, he's never really protested anything I've put on him thus far).

    I couldn't get an action shot because the batteries in my camera expired in the midst of trying to get it, but I did get a couple shots of the finished product. Soon as the batteries charge I will add an action shot.. unless he uses it, then that will have to wait till after it's been washed.. haha :)

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Tuesday, 16 June 2009

  • Good TV?

    Anyone that knows me, knows that I could live without even having a television in my house. I don't care for it, don't have cable and don't let my kids sit around watching all day long. Matter of fact it is only on when I'm certain something I (or the kids) want to watch is on. I learned long ago that the zombified state television watching produces is not good. My oldest son taught me that.

    Earlier today I was reading threads over on CafeMom and came across something that struck me odd. Apparently the CafeMom team was announcing that they would be featured on a morning talk show and while reading through the comments I found myself getting angry. SO many moms said things like "well I'll try to tune in, if I can get the remote away from my child" or "I'll try to change the channel and hope there is no screaming". And I sat there thinking, "What!?".

    When I want the TV off, I walk over to it and shut it off. I can't even imagine my kids telling ME when and what goes on the TV. Even when my oldest son was always watching TV when I said off, it went off. Any kind of screaming, ranting or whining results in a time out and nobody gets to change the rules.

    Somebody please tell me that I'm not the only one teaching my kids good things. What kind of world will we have when the toddler generation that's been soaked in nothing but video games and television grows up. It's sad and scary and turns my stomach.

Sunday, 14 June 2009

  • I'm not dead.

    Where does the time go? It seems not that long ago I had some free time opening up to fill with blissful blogging. I suppose I was wrong.

    17 weeks into a pregnancy, paired with 4 children (one of whom is still breastfeeding) doesn't seem to allow me the ability to stay awake long enough for any free writing time I might actually be entitled to. Ho hum, right? Such is a mother's life.. but I have been blogging, just not here. A while back I had 6 different blogs, I condensed them into two; this one and my sewing/crafty one over on blogger.

    While I was nursing my son last night, thinking about a gift I made that I forgot to take pictures of (for my blog) I had a total "DOH" moment. Why on earth don't I just import that blog here? What the heck was I thinking.. well I know what I was thinking .. I think. I probably didn't want certain people to end up reading certain things I've written over here... but I no longer care. Sure I'll lose some comments, but I'm just going to blog in one spot.. obviously I cannot keep up with both. Besides there is no community on blogger.

    So I will no longer seem out of the loop.. bear with my while I import ...

Monday, 08 June 2009

  • My Experience with Charlie's Soap

    I just wanted to share my experience with Charlie's Soap. I had been searching the internet looking for opinions on it for certain things and could not find anything related to what I was looking for!

    Previously for laundry I had been using Sun & Earth 2x liquid detergent for just about everything and I never use fabric softener of any kind, just a couple tennis/dryer balls in the dryer. For stripping purposes and other things (i.e. stinkies, buildup) I was mixing up my own detergent occasionally for diapers, wipes, mama cloth and nursing pads. Lately I had found I was stripping too often, it was becoming a hassle and I needed a change.

    So after much online research filled with red-eyed forum reading I decided to try Charlie's Soap. I got a free sample down at my local Nature's Way and decided to start with a load of dipes. The sample contained enough for 4 loads.. but I had to run a washer cleansing load first which used up 2 loads worth. Then I ran a load of dipes with the recommended amount of detergent. After running that load I was convinced.

    I washed my diapers as so many others suggested in the forums with one tablespoon (or one scoop that they so awesomely provide you in each little bag) of Charlie's Soap in a short cold wash followed by a short hot wash. Into the dryer they went and when they came out, the stinkies I had been battling for weeks were GONE! I smelled nothing but clean! In just one wash! I did a little shopping around and decided to purchase 160 loads worth of the laundry powder directly through their website (http://www.charliesoap.com/) since they had free shipping and a discount on bulk orders.

    I used up the remainder of my old detergent, simply because I cannot waste things, and am happy to say that everything has cycled through and been washed with Charlie's Soap! My laundry has never been cleaner or softer! Of course I'll need to continue using it to see the full effects and be sure I never get build up, but at this point having tried just about everything else I've never been more satisfied with a laundry product!

    Just a few tips though:
    1. Test your water!
    With Charlie's Soap you will need 2 scoops if your water is hard and it may not be worth it. Also, I'm not sure I'd recommend it for laundromat use since you'd have to clean out each machine before each use OR use 2 scoops with each load.. without getting as great results .. (but that goes with any detergent really, laundromat machines are skeevy.. I have to use them on occasion and I never feel like my laundry is clean enough)
    2. Clean out your fabric softener cup!
    When you run the initial wash to clean your machine of all the old residue, you will want to add a cup of vinegar to your fabric softener cup. Personally, I pulled it and it's entire housing out and washed it really well first. Then I added the vinegar and ran the washer cleaning load. You want to make sure ALL the fabric softener residue is gone, especially if you are washing diapers because fabric softener essentially will ruin them.

    That said, Charlie's Soap is my hands down favorite detergent and I would recommend it to everyone!